Geweldloze communicatie by Marshall B. Rosenberg, , available at Book Depository with free delivery worldwide. Geweldloze communicatie: ontwapenend, doeltreffend en verbindend on *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. As founder of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), Marshall Rosenberg, Ph.D. says,. “What others do may be a stimulus of our feelings, but not the cause.”.

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And likewise the way in which we honestly express our feelings and needs. Imagine learning to walk for the first time. The book highlights when we listen we often get into a number of modes: I listened to the audiobook version, and it’s fairly awful.

NVC is a very interesting concept and indeed a hard one to implement. So instead of scolding our kids for making a mess, this book encourages the notion that we really need cleanliness or respect for our home. I’m looking forward to reading Rosenberg’s Practical Spirituality as I see in its table of contents that he responds to the question: That person is the catalyst, not the cause of your emotion.

The entire NVC process is four steps: InRosenberg received his Ph.

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Buddhism for Mothers referenced this book, since it talks about how we tend to view the world as right or wrong, and discipline our kids according to this model. Nonviolent Communication – General 6 23 May 16, A Language of Life” by Marshall B. Pieter van der Veen Translator. Basically anti communication tactics are my wheelhouse. That said, I have shit communication skills.

The book then goes on to explain how to receive communication in an empathic way, which is based on those same principals, but now, your honestly trying to get to the bottom of the other person’s needs to find out how you might be able to help fulfill them.

So figure out what that need is and then request don’t demand for the other person to fulfill it. Ask for what you need explicitly When you feel an emotional response to a situation, Rosenberg contends that it’s always based on some unmet need. I’ve never heard people talk aloud like they way they talk in this book.


I didn’t quite believe the dialog examples would diffuse conflict so rapidly or get dismissed by others in the dialog as being too contrived, but they do point to a much more constructive approach than escalating judgmental responses.

I had a whole friendship based on the foundation of my empathy.

The book is well written and easy to understand. Anyone reading this book can benefit exponentially by applying the process of nonviolent communication that Rosenberg elaborates in this book with techniques and examples.

It’s great rosennberg, and I’m really struggling to apply it because the sentence structures are completely foreign and somewhat artificial sounding.

Thanks for telling us about the problem. I can’t imagine someone saying some of the statements that he says we should use in real life and some of the things that he claims to have said to people actually sound pretty harsh to me.

One thing I can assure you from my experience is that loud, bitter and violent communication never leads to fulfilment. Observe what’s happening – what’s really going on?

The Basics of Nonviolent Communication – Developed by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg

The bad grades are a stimulus, but not the direct cause of the parents’ bad feelings. Just a moment while we sign you in to your Goodreads account. There are surely denser, more theoretical treatments of how the language we use daily impairs not only our ability to interact peaceably with others but also to get the results we want, or how that same language steadily undermines individual autonomy and responsibility, resulting in today’s excruciatingly dismal political situation.

I dunno if it is a real substitute for actual mental health issues, but sure as shit it helped me grow in geweldlloze where I have been stunte I am hyper aggressive.

Geweldloze communicatie

This book came recommended by several people from completely different areas of my life and so I decided that I’d finally take a look at it. Rossnberg, upon this most recent reading, I’ve found that I have fosenberg number of criticisms. You can hear all kinds of mouth noises, and there are even a few ‘umms’ that sneak into the audiobook.


Rosenberg lays out three components: The overall message and method seem simple but there are so few people in the world who put them into practice that this is a pity. The second step in the process of nonviolent communication is to identify what are the feelings that occur when we observe. There might be ramifications for not doing something that you feel you have no communicztie in, but you still choose to do it.

This book seems to target HR looking for a facilitator for their next corporate offsite or kindergarten teachers deliberately mediating disagreements between their charges, so this title isn’t one I would have picked for myself. NVC completely overlooks, or rejects, the influence of thoughts in peoples’ experiences. Open Preview See a Problem?

The analysis to me seems spot-on, and also provides a tool for dealing with the tremendous cynicism, apathy, and sense of powerlessness that exists today – especially where it exists communicxtie the communicatei people who carry out actions of which they are critical! But Rosenberg’s book does that, and I think its draw is giving people incredibly simple and powerful tools to deal with deeply-felt, deeply-rooted cultural and social problems.

Rosenberg says that NVC doesn’t suggest that you can’t be angry geweldlozze anything. Just stating the naked facts and actions, no interpreting them nor blaming or judging the person that did them; 2- Expresses his own feelings towards that behaviour or actions; 3- Expresses his needs that hasn’t been fulfilled by this behaviour. The root of violent communication is rosenbdrg classification and judgement that comes from observation.

So, how do we provide meaningful appreciation? I dunno if it is a real substitute for actual mental health issues, but sure as shit it helped me grow in areas where I have been stunted for years. The philosophy and community of NVC are extremely liberal.